• Super Homeowner,  Super Mom,  Super Self Care

    Strong Black Woman: is that REALLY the GOAL?

    You all know the song… “I-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t do you know what that mean mayne? I-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t do you know what that mean? She got her own house She got her own car Two jobs, work hard, you a bad broad” Or what about this one… “The shoes on my feet, I bought it The clothes I’m wearing, I bought it The rock I’m rockin’, I bought it ‘Cause I depend on me ifI want it The watch I’m wearin’, I’ve bought it The house I live in, I’ve bought it The car I’m driving, I’ve bought it I depend on me, I depend on me All the women, who are independent…” But NO. F$&@?…

  • Meditation Monday,  Super Self Care

    Motivation Monday: it’s a habit!

    Yesterday I was suddenly awakened by a bad dream. I can’t recall exactly what happened, but whatever it was literally forced me into an attitude of prayer and meditation. I laid on my bed and reflected on my thoughts, my actions, and my understanding of the actions of others. I prayed that God would help me to see the intention in others instead of my perception of them. I reflected on situations in my life where I believed a friend would be there for me, but they weren’t. I reflected on times in my life where a guy said one thing, but his actions were completely different. Yes, I can…

  • Mom Chat,  Super Mom

    Super Twin Mom Of The Month: Cari

    Hey girl heyyyy!!! This month, in honor of my birthday, I decided to think through my interview questions myself and answer them for each of you! What better way to celebrate my birth but to feature myself on my own site!! 💁🏽‍♀️. This post is typically posted the FIRST Wednesday of every month, however, I’m late – no excuses, just FACTS! Let me know what you think about my answers: comment, like, follow & share pleassseee! Tell me about yourself, your career and your family… Twins? Names? Ages? Significant other? Well, I’m a single twin mom to two AMAZING FIVE Year OLDS: Caden & Cameron! 💙💙. Can you talk about…

  • Super Homeowner

    Creativity is MY outlet!

    Hi Loves!! There were days (not too long ago!) where after a bad day, I would go straight to my wine rack and grab my favorite red (Malbec) to relax.  While I still L-O-V-E a great glass of red wine, I realized that it was not solving my problems, I just happened to love the taste and it would put me in a good place, for that evening.  TRUST, I am NOT condemning drinking wine, as I still have my fair share, but I choose to not use it as an outlet, because I truly found something that is a much better outlet for me: creating! Growing up I remember…